Ok, I don't write that often, but when I do, I end up going off, so here I go....
My "husband" and I have been separated for 7+ years. When we separated, my daughter, who was old enough at the time, decided that she wanted to live with her father. Fine, great, grand, wonderful, she is daddy's little girl, (which I was when my parents got divorced) she wants to live with him. Unfortunately, she now may (wait no DEFINATELY) be having second thoughts. No biggie. I ADORE my daughter! She is so beautiful and intelligent, and yes, a little "attitude-y", but for God sakes, she's MY kid
, just like her mother. For awhile, I thought, ok, let "dad" deal with the attitude, she is too much like me. But, I now realize that he isn't "dealing" with it; he's IGNORING it. He has blown her off; left her to live with her grandmother (who isn't in the best of health, and has a house full of cats who ARE NOT fixed.....hence....INBREEDING!!!!!) He was living with her, but met up with a girl who he knew back in the day. He decided to move in with her, and, well, things have obviously gone to shit.....
Anywho.....once again I'm semi-rambling, am trying to do what I can to help everyone involved, and it is all goin right down the toilet
. My daughter is once again in tears, upset over everything that has happened, and everything that her father (who is "supposed" to be taking "care" of her) hasn't done. Right now I have done everything I could do, to the best of my knowledge and abilities, but for fuck's sake.....JEFF....STEP UP AND BE A MAN AND BE A FATHER TO AT THE VERY LEAST TO THE DAUGHTER WHO WANTS TO BE WITH YOU!!!!!!
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